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Polite Phrases for Everyday Conversations

Simple Ways to Sound More Respectful in English

Being polite in English isn’t just about saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you.’ Using the right phrases can make your requests, questions, and conversations sound more thoughtful and respectful. Whether you’re asking for help or sharing your opinion, polite language helps you build positive connections with others.

One common way to sound more polite is by using ‘Would you mind…’ when making a request. For example, instead of saying, ‘Open the window,’ you could say, ‘Would you mind opening the window?’—this sounds softer and more considerate. Similarly, ‘Could you please…’ is another great way to make requests sound more polite.

When asking for permission, phrases like ‘Would it be okay if…’ or ‘Do you mind if…’ are useful. For instance, ‘Would it be okay if I left early today?’ sounds much better than simply saying, ‘I’m leaving early.’

Another helpful phrase is ‘If it’s not too much trouble…’, which shows that you’re aware the other person may be busy. For example, ‘If it’s not too much trouble, could you help me with this?’ Lastly, adding ‘I’d appreciate it if…’ to your requests shows gratitude in advance and encourages a positive response.

By helping your students to master these polite phrases, they can sound more respectful and improve their interactions in both casual and professional settings.

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1017Would you mind...PhraseA polite way to ask someone to do somethingWould you mind closing the door?
1017Could you please...PhraseA polite way to request somethingCould you please send me the file?
1017Would it be okay if...PhraseA polite way to ask for permissionWould it be okay if I used your charger?
1017If it's not too much trouble...PhraseA polite way to acknowledge someone's effortIf it's not too much trouble, could you help me?
1017I'd appreciate it if...PhraseA polite way to express gratitude in advanceI'd appreciate it if you could review this report.
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1017Polite Requests at WorkDuring a busy morning at the office, Katie turned to her colleague and asked, 'Would you mind helping me organize these files?' Her teammate smiled and agreed right away. Later, Katie approached her manager and said, 'Would it be okay if I took a longer lunch break to run some errands?' The manager approved, adding that she appreciated Katie's thoughtful request. Before leaving, Katie told her coworker, 'I'd appreciate it if you could cover my phone calls while I'm out.' Thanks to her polite approach, everything went smoothly.
1017A Helpful NeighborLisa knocked on her neighbor's door and asked, 'Could you please help me carry this heavy box upstairs?' Her neighbor gladly agreed. As they reached the top, Lisa added, 'If it's not too much trouble, could you also help me move the bookshelf?' Her neighbor smiled and got to work. Before leaving, Lisa said, 'I'd appreciate it if you could let me know if you ever need a hand with anything, too.' Her thoughtful words made her neighbor feel valued and appreciated.
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